Love… Of Words & Deeds (Troverete il testo in italiano ed in albanese in fondo alla pagina) [1] Will anyone read a blog about love? Will anyone read a blog about love? Is it not this the most over-used and hackneyed of all words? It is a fact that while we know that somehow love…
Read more Love… Of Words and Deeds [1] Will anyone read a blog about love?
Love… Of Words & Deeds (Troverete il testo in italiano ed in albanese in fondo alla pagina) [2] This is the love I mean ‘This is the love I mean: not our love for God, but God’s love for us when he sent his Son to be the sacrifice that takes our sins away.’ This…
Read more Love… Of Words and Deeds [2] This is the love I mean
I might spend some time today recalling those persons who have taught me to love. Deep in our hearts we all feel drawn to love, but we need others to enable us to learn what this means and how to do it well.
A patient love is not a passive one, for Love is [also] kind, at the service of others. True love bears fruit in deeds and not just words
Read more Love… Of Words & Deeds [4] Love is patient. Love is kind (1Cor 13:4)
True love then finds expression in deeds rather than in words. The real test of my love lies in my behaviour.
Read more Love… Of Words & Deeds [5] Love with your heart, your mind, your hands
Loving our enemies is one of the most difficult things we are called to do, and very often wanting to do it is not enough to achieve it. Pardoning those who have harmed us can be a long and complex process, which involves so many conflicting emotions and desires in our hearts.
… if we look at when our love is patient and generous we will find in us the desire and the motivation to love others as they are loved by God, and as we are loved by him.
In a very real way, the question about who are the persons I really love can be answered by asking myself who are the persons I rejoice with, those whose good qualities and success fill me with joy.
The scale of suffering and injustice in our world is the biggest challenge to our love. Is it really possible to love everybody, even those I do not know and have never met?
Read more Love… Of Words & Deeds [9] Do not forget the poor!
To understand who God is and his love for us, Jesus invites us to look at the lilies of the fields, he compares our relationship to God to a vine and its branches, he is our good shepherd and we are the flock for whom he gives his life.
Read more Love… Of Words & Deeds [10] Love and our common home
This God who is love has created us in his own image and likeness, and is calling us to resemble him as much as we can in the way we love others.
I can do many impressive and even heroic things, but if I do them without love, I am nothing more than ‘a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal, I am nothing’
Read more Love… Of Words & Deeds [12] The greatest commandment
Throughout his life, and in special way during the Passion, Jesus really took his life in his own hands, and in obedience to the Father, let it be broken for our sake
Read more Love… Of Words & Deeds [13] He loved them to the end (Jn 13: 1-20)
Let our gaze rest on Jesus and ask for the grace to enter more deeply into the mystery of his love for us.
Read more Love… Of Words & Deeds – [14] Behold: No one has greater love than this (Jn 15:13)
The only Jesus that exists now is the Risen one: we cannot find him in the tomb because he comes to meet us in our ordinary life, in our Galilee. He bears his wounds because the path we follow is the narrow one, yet it is the one that leads to life, a life based on the certainty that ‘love never ends’
Read more Love… Of Words & Deeds [15] Jesus is Risen, Love has triumphed, Alleluia!
Since it is God who made me, the best thing that can happen to me is to discover and do his will for me. We all know this is easier said than done, but Ignatius shows us it is possible if we are discerning persons, willing to walk this pilgrimage one step at a time.
Even though discernment includes reason and prudence, it goes beyond them, for it seeks a glimpse of that unique and mysterious plan that God has for each of us, which takes shape amid so many varied situations and limitations…
One of the first questions I must ask myself is what lies in my heart. Who is at its centre, is it only me, or are the others there too, especially those who suffer and are in need of my help, the ‘little ones’ Jesus identified himself so clearly with? Can I ever discern properly if my heart is closed to migrants?
This year we will remember St Ignatius of Loyola, whose feast we celebrate today, July 31st, by reflecting on discernment. It is a word he used very often, a practice he developed throughout his life. It is also a word we hear more and more nowadays: so often in fact, that we need to understand…
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Welcome to our Lenten blog for 2018. We will dedicate this Lenten blog to prayer, specifically to the prayer that Jesus himself taught us. It is he himself who suggests we use it as a model for our own prayer.
Our Father… This is really the core of the good news that Jesus came to proclaim. We are not slaves but sons and daughters of God. He is not just our distant creator or formidable law enforcer, but our loving father.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [2] “Our Father…”
In the person of Jesus we meet the Christian God who is the Emmanuel, the God-with-us. Jesus, the one whom came to live among us, said, ‘Who sees me sees the Father’.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [3] “…who art in Heaven”
We are reminded of Jesus’ last command before he ascended into heaven, to make this good news of God’s love known by all peoples so that God’s name may be hallowed by all.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [4] “…Hallowed be Thy name”
… it grows inexorably, day and night even while the farmer is asleep, it gives an extraordinary harvest, even a hundredfold when it finds good soil.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [5] “…Your Kingdom come”
This is the prayer of those who understand themselves as sons and daughters of God, and not his slaves. The more we see God as our loving Father, the more we desire that his will be done, not out of fear but out of trust.
Praying for our daily bread helps us clarify to ourselves what we really need, what we consider more important and worth having.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [7] “…Give us this day our daily bread”
Jesus assures us ‘there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance’. (Lk 15:7)
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [8] “…forgive us our trespasses”
…he slowly understood that his daughters’ death must not be in vain. He became a peace activist, sharing his story and working hard to convince people that peace and forgiveness are more powerful than hate and revenge.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [9] “…as we forgive those who trespass against us”
Acknowledging our weakness before temptation, we ask our Father to have mercy on us and strengthen us in our weakness.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [10] “…lead us not into temptation”
…the struggle with the evil that inhabits us and our world is a serious one, for we find ourselves pitted against what we often feel is much bigger and powerful than us. Yet this prayer reassures us that we can always turn trustingly to our loving Father and seek his protection.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [11] “…deliver us from evil”
Mary will be our best companion as we look at Jesus living out his last days, preparing himself to make the supreme act of love and mercy for us sinners in full trust to his Father.
Instead of thinking of himself and his personal needs as he approached his departure from this world to the Father, he was concerned with how his friends would fare after his violent arrest and death.
Now as he hangs on the cross at the end of his life he could say that all is completed, and he could entrust himself fully, in total trust, into the loving hands of the Father.
The women were told that the Risen Jesus was not where they expected him to be but in Galilee, the place of their normal activity. For us too, the Risen Jesus is no longer in the tomb, nor in the Temple, nor in church, but in our Galilee, in our everyday life, in my family, at my place of work, my believing community, my political world.
Read more ‘This, then, is how you should pray…’ [15] Father, Your Kingdom has come, Christ is Risen!
We must not let hope abandon us, because God, with his love, walks with us. Each one of us can say: “I hope, I have hope, because God walks with me”. He walks and he holds my hand. God does not leave us to ourselves. The Lord Jesus has conquered evil and has opened the path of life for us. (Pope Francis)
‘This is how Christian hope is: having the certainty that I am walking toward something that is, not something that I hope may be’
Read more Advent 2017 [2] ‘The helmet of hope (1Thess 5:11): learning to live in expectation’
We are still fascinated by Abraham because he is so similar to us: we too struggle to keep our hope alive, and sometimes in our disappointment and bewilderment we complain bitterly to God. Our hope too can be threatened by darkness, as we strive to maintain trust in God’s faithfulness to his promises.
Read more Advent 2017 [3] Abraham, the one who ‘hoped against hope’
Where can our hope come from? The Pope says it comes from the migrants themselves, who battle huge odds and risk their lives because they believe that a better, peaceful and just future is possible. They place their hope on the humanity we all share, and take huge risks trusting they will be welcomed.
Read more Advent 2017 [4] You migrants are warriors of hope!
One way of lighting a candle of hope is by performing a concrete act of mercy. The darker the world becomes the greater is the scope for mercy and merciful people.
Read more Advent 2017 [5] Better to light a candle [of mercy] than to curse the darkness
Hail, Mother of mercy, our life, our sweetness and our hope (Traduzione italiana in fondo alla pagina) As Christmas Day draws near, the image of Mary assumes more space in our imagination. We imagine her as she makes her way from Nazareth to the small town of Bethlehem. Like every heavily pregnant woman, she is anxious…
Read more Advent 2017 [6] Hail, Mother of mercy, our life, our sweetness and our hope
Those who were ready to hope had their hopes fulfilled, albeit in totally unexpected ways. Those who knew exactly what they expected were frustrated.
Hope means believing that the light will come from the darkness itself: it is a gift, God’s greatest gift, given to those who are ready to face their darkness. Like the shepherds we discover the joy of Christmas when we go as we really are.
In a few days we will be celebrating the feast of St Ignatius of Loyola, the founder of the Jesuits and the man who tried to put his spiritual experience at the service of others through his writings and through the foundation of the Jesuit order. Though he lived in the 16th century (1491-1556), his…
Read more 23.07.2017 Forever relevant: Putting order in one’s life
Putting order in one’s life implies looking for what the Lord wants from me now, in the context of my present duties, my present struggles and my hopes. This is a continuing quest, an ongoing discernment rather than a single decision that sets my life on a certain course.
Read more Life as a pilgrimage: Discerning God’s will for me now
Through knowing and following Jesus, whom I desire to love always more Who more than Jesus had an ordered life? He was always attuned to the Father’s will, which he fulfilled to the very end on the wood of the Cross. Therefore for Ignatius it was natural to seek order in life through the lived…
Read more 29.07.2017 – Through knowing and following Jesus, whom I desire to love always more
Within this Ignatian vision, it is clear that my life will not achieve order unless it includes service to others in their real needs.
Read more Feast of St Ignatius – Helping souls: at the service of God and of others
Blessedness through virtue – An introduction to our new series of reflections for Lent, inspired by the Beatitudes
The first beatitude is perhaps the most enigmatic of them all. How can the poor be called blessed? Is not poverty to be combated as unworthy of human dignity? And what is poverty of spirit?
Sometimes our faith feels so weak we start suspecting it is not even there. Yet Jesus tells us otherwise: it is enough for our faith to be as small as a mustard seed, it can move mountains.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – Poor in spirit: the virtue of Faith
‘Who cried for the people who lost their lives on a boat? For the young mothers who travelled with their children? For those fathers who were seeking a better future for their families? ‘ This was the ringing challenge to the world’s conscience sounded by Pope Francis from the island of Lampedusa in July 2013.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
…It goes beyond empathy or pity, for the compassionate person not only feels the pain, but lives it as something his or her own and tries to do something about it…
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – To be able to mourn we need compassion
It looks like the earth is being conquered by the angry, and that those politicians who know how to tap into this anger will be successful, whether it is the anger at factories and jobs moving elsewhere, or at seeing too many migrants around, or at the total disrespect for the environment by those with power.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – Blessed are the meek for they will inherit the earth
Although it seems that meek and weak are synonyms, in fact meekness requires inner strength: as the Italian proverb goes, Patience is the virtue of the strong.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – On Meekness and Patience
Hunger and thirst are needs we cannot stop ourselves from feeling, and the only way to get rid of them is to do something about it. By speaking of the hunger and thirst for righteousness, Jesus is once again setting a high standard indeed.
One of the tragedies of our times of unparalleled material well-being is the near absence of causes or ideals that are capable of inspiring our passion. We seem to hunger and thirst for very little, except perhaps for material things and comforts.
Throughout his life Jesus was accused of being too friendly with sinners. Yet he never defended himself from this accusation.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy
Jesus tells us very clearly that ultimately we will be judged on the concreteness of our mercy, on how we reacted to those suffering hunger and thirst, to refugees, the sick and those in prison.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – Mercy of the heart and mercy of the hands
… That is why Jesus is blessing those whose heart is pure, transparent, not muddied by hidden agendas or motivations. The heart’s first commandment, the only one, is love.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God
Nothing can ever replace a person of integrity, and perhaps never was this need felt more than today.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – “Be such as you appear and appear such as you be.”
Peacemaking is needed at all levels of human life, not only between states, but between persons and within families too. Today I will try to open the eyes of my heart to such situations, and will do my best to deserve the name of peacemaker.
There are so many concrete ways to protect creation, from being less wasteful to supporting policies that are more sustainable. Most come at a price, but it is a price worth paying.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – “If You Want to Cultivate Peace, Protect Creation”
Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven I am writing this blog from Albania, a country which was ruled by one of the harshest Communist regimes anywhere, the country which prided itself to be the first to define itself as an atheist state in its constitution.…
On April 7th, 2014 Fr Frans was shot dead. He was one of the blessed praised by Jesus, those who are ready to suffer for the sake of righteousness, for what they believe to be true and just, to build a world as close as can be to what God wants of it.
Read more Cracking the Beatitudes – Fr Frans van de Lugt (1938-2014)
When we read and reflect on the Beatitudes there is always a lingering ‘too good to be true’ feeling, if only they can be lived out, if only we can put them into practice. Somewhere there is always a big BUT.
‘Behold the man!’ As so often in his Gospel, John uses a touch of irony in reporting Pilates words: while Pilate is speaking to the crowd in front of him, we know the invitation is really directed to us, the Gospel’s readers. On the day of the Passion, we are called to behold Jesus.
Christ our Passover is risen. Alleluia! Let us rejoice and be glad. Alleluia! This is the liturgy’s insistent call today: let us rejoice with Jesus, the blessed by the Father, who has been raised to life after three days in the tomb. He endured humiliation and suffered grievously for our sakes, but his faithfulness has…
Read more Christ our Passover is risen. Alleluia! Let us rejoice and be glad. Alleluia!
As the 36th General Congregation of the Jesuits gets under way in Rome today, Sunday 2nd October, we will try to reflect on what is happening from our Ignatian perspective.
At their General Congregation (gc36.org), some 200 Jesuits from all over the world are gathered to seek what God wants of the Jesuits at present, and to decide how best to achieve this in practice.
Just before Fr Arturo Sosa, the new Jesuit General, starts the celebration of his thanksgiving mass at the church of the Gesu’ in Rome, he will visit the room where the first Jesuit General, St Ignatius, lived for nearly 18 years. There he will listen to the portrait Ignatius himself composed in the Jesuit Constitutions…
When he founded the Jesuit order, Ignatius gave it a clearly universal mission: he placed himself and the Jesuits at the total disposal of the Pope, the one who has the responsibility for the universal Church.
Last Monday (24th October) Pope Francis, the first Jesuit Pope, addressed the 36th Jesuit General Congregation meeting in Rome. In the next blogs we will reflect on the three ways he suggested the Jesuits can choose to carry out their mission nowadays. The original speech, in Spanish can be found on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TqrK938BBPg with the English…
Read more GC36 – (5) “One cannot give good news with a sad face…ask insistently for consolation”
‘the more he failed the Lord, the more the Lord reached out in giving him his grace’…
Read more Gc36 – (6) Let ourselves be moved by our Lord placed on the cross
“We neither walk alone nor comfortably, but we walk with a heart that does not rest, that does not close in on itself but beats to the rhythm of a journey undertaken together with all the people faithful to God”.
Read more GC36 – (7) Doing good led by the good spirit, thinking with the Church
Ignatius prompts me to ask myself to what extent my Christian faith is really centred around the person of Jesus…
Ignatius was born in very exciting times. When he was a few months old, Columbus arrived in America, and his conversion in Loyola in 1521 coincided with the first circumnavigation of the globe by Magellan. It was also the time of the Reformation in the Church, set in motion by Martin Luther in 1517. At…
The Church is our family, the family of those who believe in Jesus, where we received our faith, and where we are still called to share it.
From time to time we find ourselves struggling with difficult decisions, at a loss how to decide…
In the film Fiddler on the Roof, Tevye, the protagonist prays: ‘May God bless and keep the Tsar…far away from us!’…
Read more 2. Finding God’s will: does it bring me peace or dread? (19.05.16)
What is my image of God? One of the most crucial features of any discernment process is the image I have of God: is it one that inspires trust and love, or fear and suspicion? I may see him as my loving and merciful father, or maybe I prefer to keep my distance. Perhaps I feel angry…
There were once three groups of persons, who had a considerable sum of money, but they were not sure whether they could keep it. All realised they needed to take a decision, but each group went about it in a different way. The first group were really determined to decide, but somehow never got down…
The discernment of our spirits is so important in discerning God’s will for us. We need to be able to understand the language of our heart.
Ignatius learnt from experience that times of desolation can be extremely important as long as they are discerned. The basic question must be, Why am I in desolation? Where is it coming from?..
Ignatius asks us to insist in prayer to know Jesus more intimately, to love him more intensely, and to follow him more closely. Discernment is much more than a technique or a method, it is rather following Jesus as we seek to find and live the Father’s will for us.
When Solomon inherited the great kingdom of his father David, God asked him what he wanted. Instead of asking for more power or greater wealth, Solomon asked for a listening heart, so that he could be able to take good decisions. As we come to the end of this short series of reflections on discernment,…
